Thursday, January 11, 2018

Never capitalize on the vulnerability of a woman

There is a story about a married man and a married woman who were co-workers. The married man was newly transferred to the office where the married woman worked. To make a long story short, they somehow built a friendship. The woman would share her life and office travails with the married man, and vice versa.

Sensing her vulnerability, the married man violated the boundary that an honorable and godly man would not dare violate. Instead of simply listening, giving her advice, and cutting it off right there to prevent the deepening of emotional ties between the two of them, he transgressed the demarcation line that separates honorable, godly, and good men from wicked, bestial, and devious men. To satisfy his wicked desire, he pounced, captured, and conquered the susceptible woman.

But how are you going to avoid this kind of sinful relationship that could destroy you, your family, and your marriage? If you’re a woman, you have to be aware of this kind of situation. If you feel that you’re sinfully falling for a married man, cut it off immediately; otherwise, you’ll get burned, be destroyed, and may even be left with nothing.

If you’re a man, never ever violate the norms of virtuous and good men. Never intrude into a territory that is not yours. Never take advantage of the vulnerability of a married woman, or else you will pay for it with your life if the husband has a violent mind. Even if the husband has a gentle and peaceful mind and would simply let go and let God, the unfolding of time will surely make you pay for it deeply and severely.

Whether we admit it or not, adulterous, immoral, and unethical relationships are happening inside the workplace. These relationships, which violate the norms of ethics, morality, and civility, are usually initiated by men—men whose real mindsets are hideous, evil, and as low as the belly of a snake.

Wicked men who think that they can get away with the evil they have done. Nonetheless, there is no free ride in this world when it comes to evil deeds, for payback will surely come when you least expect it. – Marino J. Dasmarinas

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